August 24,2017

Manipulating someone through flattery will make you feel vaguely sick inside. You've always preferred the direct approach to getting your way. When that won't work, you feel pressured to resort to other tactics. Instead of applying more pressure, make a strategic retreat. The person you want to help you will be more open to your suggestion when you respect their boundaries. Even if they decide to go their own way, you should maintain this friendship.